Still Playing Hard to get........

......how about you switch it up an be Hard to Forget!!!!

Many girls don't get it, playing games will only lead you to many more heartaches and headaches. Guys Boys will always play games but you too have a choice, you can either join in or remove yourself from the equation. That's not the point of this post sha.

So playing hard to get, for those who don't know what this entails  it is when a woman is doing shakara for a man. Now don't misinterpret genuine disinterest for shakara o, because sometimes a lady is really just not into you but the man thinks she's playing hard to get. The other side of the coin is when babe is feeling the guy but because she doesn't want to come off as "cheap" or easy (I don't get why we still have this mentality sha, but i digress) she snobs him when he approaches her, after much persistence they exchange contacts. Next phase is when she pretends to be busy, doesn't reply text messages, doesn't return calls and so on. All these tactics are really unnecessary in my opinion except if you are still interested in the chase em I chase you game. But for a woman who is mature, single and ready to get into something serious please take these few nuggets of wisdom and try it with the next guy that comes to toast approaches you. 

1. It's a compliment when a guy approaches you, so don't be full of yourself. Relax
2. Remember it also takes courage for a guy to approach you, don't bash his ego by dismissing him rudely.
3. Don't be rude. I can't stress this enough, yes some guys can come off (are) arrogant in their approach but your politeness can check him and he'll make amends. Fr those who don't, oh well you know that conversation ends right there. 
4. Be pleasant and SMILE. 
5. Engage in (great) conversation: You never know what connections you can make from a conversation with a stranger. 

After the initial meeting comes the follow up, in this situation still keep up your initial impression (hopefully this is really who you are....if not then that's a different post on women and their attitudes). 

1. Be available: Please stop forming busy (most especially) when you are not.This is not to say be at his beck and call but don't be all too busy either. We make time for what we want to make time for...it's that simple. 
2. Have goals, aspirations, a hobby, something you are working on. This is self explanatory.
3. Be fun and interesting: Be that girl that keeps him wanting more (not sexually). Guys want a girl to keep them laughing, entertained and that they can have a good time with too. No be only woman sabi good thing. Let each moment with you be an experience. 

These few things I believe will make you a woman hard to forget!

P.S these suggestions are only for the men that approach you and not the wanna bes. Use your female intuition to discern.